Getting Started

Although it has been over 100 degrees each day this week, I have to admit, I have already started thinking about Christmas. 

In my mind, Christmas can be broken down into three main categories: (i) the practical, (ii) the spiritual, and (iii) the secular.  My family's goal is to balance all three.  Of course, some aspects of the holiday season fall into more than one category. 

I am certain that some will object to "the practical" being first on the list.  However, most people are at or above capacity when it comes to Christmas, and the main source for the hustle and bustle of the season stems from things like Christmas shopping, gift wrapping, decorating, mailing Christmas cards, baking, etc.  If we are to shift our focus away from the secular aspects of the holiday and toward the birth of Christ, we have to make room.  We can't add things into an already overloaded schedule and expect to create a more peaceful and meaningful Christmas environment. 

This is the time of year to start really thinking about the type of Christmas you want for your family.  What are your Christmas goals?  This might sound funny, but if you haven't given some specific thought to what you are trying to do, it is unlikely that you are going to accidentally create your ideal Christmas experience. 

This week, I encourage you to spend time thinking and talking about what type of Christmas you (and your husband) want to have this year.  My guess is that most people long to have a slower paced, more peaceful, and less expensive season.  A season that is filled with fun, laughter, and quality time with family. A season where you have time to sit back and to be thankful for the gift of Christ.  A season where you create lasting memories with your children.  A season of closeness.  A season of calm not chaos.

That being said, I cannot imagine December being a slow and lazy month--nor would I want it to be.  But, I can aspire to have a festive and fun Christmas season that does not result in my being frazzled and stressed.  So, for me, it starts with the practical. What can I do to reduce the "to do list" of Christmas so that I can make room for the type of Christmas that I want for my family?

Stay tuned. . .